Building Skills at Home
To help your child develop speech and language skills, make sure to talk and read to your baby. Later, encourage conversation with your child. The size of a 2-year-old's vocabulary is directly related to how much parents and other caregivers have spoken to that child since the child was born.
Newborn babies are programmed to learn. And parents are naturally excellent language teachers. The kinds of interactions and conversations parents normally have with their children, from "baby talk" to repeating words, are perfect language lessons. Talking, reading, listening, and responding to babies and young children usually are all that they need to help them learn to talk.
Teaching sign language to babies 6 months or older could also help them in several ways. Signing gives babies a way to express their wants and needs when they can't talk. And it gives you another way to bond with your child.
You can start to read to your baby from birth. Read to your child each day. Reading to your young child is a very important learning activity for several reasons. While reading, you and your child share a comforting closeness. You also both focus on the same picture and the same concept. Your child can ask you questions, and you can reinforce your child's observations. Reading gives children a chance to learn new words that they wouldn't normally hear in everyday conversation. If you often read to your child, you may help with their speech development. It may also help your child's later reading abilities and school performance.
If you have concerns about your own reading skills, seek out an adult reading program at your local library or public school system. You can also go to America's Literacy Directory at www.literacydirectory.org to find reading programs in your area.
Helping your baby, birth to age 1
These are some things you can do to help your baby develop speech and language.
- Talk, read, sing, and play with your baby. Interacting with your baby and sharing a loving environment will help make your baby more curious, build confidence, and help your baby get familiar with language. These traits will provide a strong foundation for speech and language development.
- Turn off the TV. When you play or read with your child, leave the TV off. Even a show playing in the background can distract you and your baby.
Helping your child, ages 1 to 2
There are things you can do to encourage and support your child's speech and language development.
- Involve your child in conversations.
- Talk about the names of favorite toys and other common objects around the house.
- Speak slowly and clearly, and praise your child's attempts to speak.
- Play or read together. To help your child's brain develop, play and read together instead of letting your child watch TV, watch movies, or play games on a screen.
- Leave the TV off. When you play or read with your child, leave the TV off. Even a show playing in the background can distract you and your child. For children younger than 18 months, the American Academy of Pediatrics advises parents to avoid screen time.
Helping your child, ages 2 to 4
These are some things you can do to help your 2- to 4-year-old learn new words and say sentences.
- Encourage your child to talk to others. When you can, gently encourage your child to talk to others, including other children near the same age.
- Correct your child's speech in positive ways. When your child makes a language mistake, gently rephrase, repeat, or relabel.
- Read to your child every day.
- Set limits on TV and video viewing.
Helping your child, ages 3 to 5
The best way to help your child learn is to talk and read to your child. Doing these things will help your child learn language skills faster. Try these ideas:
- Read books to your child that tell stories with a beginning, middle, and end.
- Choose stories about your child's interests. Stories about facing fears and solving problems are also good.
- As you read, talk with your child about the story. Ask questions like "What's going to happen next?" and "Why do you think the character did that?"
- Listen to and talk with your child every day.
- Play games that require listening and following instructions.
- Speak clearly and correctly. Avoid "baby talk."
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